Thursday, September 22, 2011

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

It's a hard thing to believe and to grasp that you make your life how you want it to be.

No matter how everyone else treats you, and how everyone else looks at you.
All that matters is how you look at yourself.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"
It is so true, you realize there are people in your life that just want to make it a living hell and they absolutely will if you let them. But that is your choice.

There are also some cases where the person is not trying to make you unhappy at all you just look up to them and look down upon yourself; which I'm pretty sure almost everyone in this world has that one person that they never think they can add up to.
Whether its a pretty girl you compare yourself to, a successful friend with a great paying job, a sibling that just seems to do everything better, or the looks of a stranger you don't even know. 

I'm not ashamed to say I always have that one person in my head that I compare myself to, and I believe its healthy to do so. 
You just have to know the line of it being healthy and it being damaging to your self confidence and your life.

Jealously and Envy are two extremely difficult things to get past, everyone always wants what someone else has or always wants to look a different way.
That's all apart of life and sometimes can be challenge to get past the feelings.

I hope everyone realizes that life is too short to worry about what others think about you and just live your life for you. Make yourself happy and the people who deserve to be in your life will be there.<3

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Happiness is having what you want & wanting what you have.
















Forgiveness has always been apart of my life. I believe very strongly that most people deserve second chances, sometimes even third and forth. This belief is slowly becoming a smaller and smaller part of my life. I don't understand some people and their ways of living. I know that the time we have here can be gone with a blink of an eye, therefore I take nothing for granted. I'm not saying I never argue, never cry, or never become an emotional mess, but it doesn't take but minutes to regain my thought and realize everything wonderful I have in my life. Some people live their lives thinking it's okay to bring others down, to hurt those around them and find things to be angry about. When situations like this are brought into my life I'm not going to lie at first it stings and it bothers me, but the more I think about it the more I realize the people doing so want me to feel like that. I take a step back and look around and hope they will one day see things differently. But I guess that is one thing I will never understand about people. I try to be the best person I can, and raise Patrick to be a good person and the wonderful man I know one day he will be. I'm so lucky to be surrounding by the most amazing and supportive people. I have a wonderful life and a perfectly imperfect family that I love with all my heart.


To those people who question themselves because of this post, just think about the hurt you may be causing someone around you, and think about how you may feel if pain was purposely inflicted upon you. You never know when those people will choose to stop giving you more chances.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

It's a passion

Hope you guys enjoy the pictures, maybe I'll be able to write some more tomorrow!












Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Its been awhile.

Not too many pictures to load today, working on a website or something for my photography since this has turned into a "lets rant and show pictures" blog.
This summer has been absolutely amazing so far, I really to have nothing to complain about except the horrible  humid Georgia heat we have.
I'm so ready to put my photography to the next level, and couldn't be more excited about doing so!
Here some pictures for now.